Monday, May 28, 2012

Miracles!


Buenos dias mi familia maravillosa,

I was happy to hear that y'all got together this weekend for Ryland's baby blessing! Verna tells me that Ryland is a really cute baby, and I just realized that I haven't seen a single picture of him! Somebody this week was giving directions in Spanish, and they mentioned something about "Ryland." I had to stop them and ask them to repeat that because I hadn't heard the name before, but they were just pronouncing the name of a grocery store here--Raley's--in Spanish. I almost found another Ryland...

Mom and Stace--thank you for the shirts! And the Skittles! I think I'm going to use those in lessons to illustrate the principle of tithing. Kids love learning about tithing when candy's involved.

This week was amazing!! We taught the familia Ro, family of six. The mom, L, was baptized fifteen years ago but has been less active for quite some time. When we first approached her--did I tell you that we were going to visit a potential and I saw two of her sons in the distance, thought they might speak Spanish, and then went to talk to them? In our first visit she told us that her husband was Catholic and basically told us that it was worth a try because he'd stay Catholic--even though her whole family was LDS. Ra (the father) is starting to change a ton. They keep all their commitments--reading from the Book of Mormon, praying as a family, watching videos that we leave and conference talks that we pull up on the computer. Last night he called because he thought they were watching the wrong talk and he wanted to double-check--aww. They loved church yesterday (it was their second time to go), and when we stopped by last night and without even asking him how he felt, Ra told us that he's noticing a big change in himself. He wants to spend more time with his family and wants to be a better person--that's the Spirit at its finest! The three in the family who are baptismal age accepted a baptismal date of June 16! When I asked one of the sons if he was excited about his baptism last night, he told us he was and that he wanted the missionary who returned to her country to baptize him. haha We haven't really talked about priesthood in depth... We sister missionaries can't do the baptizing!

We actually had four investigators at church yesterday. The fourth was a 25-year-old man from Michoacan, Mexico named Bo. He is incredibly shy and quiet so it's really hard to discern his needs/what he's thinking, understanding, etc. We called him yesterday before church and asked if he wanted to follow us to church this week--his sister told us that he actually tried coming last week with the map we gave him but kind of got lost and returned home. We were so surprised to hear that so yesterday we went to his home and he followed us all the way to church. And he loved it! Actually, we're not sure how he liked it since the communication is extremely limited, but I'm sure he was thrilled. He even started reading from the Book of Mormon and is on page 15--I don't know if we invited him to start reading from the beginning, but we're definitely okay with the initiative! Unfortunately he might be moving out of our area soon--and he accepted a baptismal date of June 16 as well.

We taught another family from Vera Cruz, Mexico--Mi and Ed this past Thursday. We've met with them a few times before but the lessons were a little here and there about the gospel of Jesus Christ and getting to know them. We taught them about the Restoration and knocked their socks off and by the end of the lesson Ed was flipping through the Book of Mormon, reading bits and pieces and looking at the pictures at the front of the book. They are an amazing little, young family. They have two cute kids--K (5 maybe) and B (2)--and they have a wonderful relationship. They actually married siblings--sister sister and brother brother. We're going to meet with them again on Thursday, which I'm really excited about, and they told us they'd come to church next week because they wouldn't be able to make it yesterday.

We're seeing a lot of progress in East Sac Spanish! Hopefully we can keep using our charm--and other helpful resources like the true gospel, the scriptures, prayer, all those good things--to help people progress to the waters of baptism, the door to the kingdom of God! 

Love you all,

kates

P.S. Happy birthday, Grandpa!! In a few days. And happy Memorial Day!

Monday, May 21, 2012

Happy Summer in One Month


Mi querida familia,

Sister Novakovich and I are trying our best to tackle East Sac. We realized that we're polar opposites, just in the sense that she's from Alaska, I'm from Texas. She's the oldest of five (2 girls then 3 boys) and I'm the youngest of five (2 boys then 3 girls). Other than that we mesh really well! We've been able to hold the fort down relatively well. After working frantically on Thursday through Saturday inviting people to church (and running around like mad women on Sunday morning calling people, arranging rides, reminding people about their commitment to come to church, and going to their homes to wake them up and help them get ready--we're really good cheerleaders), we had one to church! Woo hoo. We were expecting at least seven, but that will come in due time.

Sister Fernandez made it safely home to the Dominican Republic on Thursday night. Wow, the California Sacramento Mission is going to be completely different without her. I mentioned last week that I was called to be a trainer and the next morning President switched our transfer calls. The next morning after that (Wednesday morning), we were at the mission office making the swap (dropping "Fernanda" off and picking up "Nova") and President asked if I would be one of the three exchange sisters. Yikes. So now I'll be going on exchanges with three companionships each transfer and share all the wisdom and knowledge I wish I had! I'll be going out with the Spanish sisters in the other ward in Sacramento and two English companionships (it's nice serving in English work but very, very strange at the same time).

Happy birthday a day later, Stace! Hope everything was spectacular. I said happy birthday out loud to you a few times during the day--hope you got the message. And happy birthday next week, Grandpa! Hope you enjoy the Texas HEAT!

We had a very cute Relief Society activity on Thursday. The sister in charge of visiting teaching made dinner for all the sisters and gave us crowns and reminded us how we're all princesses and daughters in the kingdom of God. She set up little castles and had sparkly tablecloths and all sorts of treats. It was very well attended and I'm sure the messages that we skipped out on were very inspiring.

The man who came to church yesterday, Is, has a lot of interest in giving up drinking and learning more about God and changing his life. We see a lot of promise in him (he lives with members! They were baptized a little over a year ago and are slightly less active but we're working on changing that.) and hope that he will continue to come to church although he has to work right after. We taught the Ra family again and were expecting them to come (at least to one hour like they said) but don't know what happened. The Ra are a family of six--Lucy, the mom, was baptized about fifteen years again and her parents are sealed and the brothers are all active. We had a great lesson with them about the Restoration of the gospel and R the dad said a beautiful prayer at the end of the lesson. They were waiting for us to come and eat! (didn't know about that) and we had tostadas with cueritos (pig skins soaked in pickled vinegar mmm).

Well that's about it, folks. Love you! Glad that life is moving forward happily and healthily.

Love,

kates

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Change of Plans


Buenas tardes mi linda familia,

It was great hearing your voices a few days ago! I felt like we were all together in the family room imitating Wyzowski and laughing about our dear brother Manitas. I hope all your mothers had a very special Mother's Day and that your husbands spoiled you for everything you do. You're raising little future missionaries! There are about three little boys in our ward (from 4 to 7 years old) here who wear tags every Sunday that say "Future Missionary." They are adorable, and it makes me think of my six nephews (six, right?) who are going to serve and change so many lives! And it all starts now. So thank you for the special work you're doing now.

We got transfer calls last night. Sister Fernandez was right--I was called to train!! President called at about 6:30 last night and extended the call and I was very happy and excited to accept. My baby is going to have a sister! I've been thinking of all the cute things I can do for her to make her feel welcome and at home. Sister Schow is excited to have a baby in the home, too. I feel much more prepared this time around--poor Sister Beale went on a roller coaster ride when she first got her because I felt like ahhhhhhh!

This morning we had a zone activity in a members' home where we played ping pong and pool and air hockey. President Lewis called me and told me that a few things came up and that he needed to change my call... So Sister Fernandez thought I was going to train (and I was) and I thought I was going to be with Sister Novakovich (and now I am!). Oh wow--Hermanas Brinkerhoff y Novakovich. That's going to be REAL fun. We were at a recent convert's house last night and one of the girls who lives there told me that my last name is too hard and that she was going to give me a nickname. My new nickname is Lily. I'm excited to finally be senior companion! Sister Novakovich is two transfers younger than me--she came to Stockton when I left and has been there ever since. I'm sad that I won't be training, but I have more opportunities to do that with the five transfers I have left. I still feel like I'm going to train again, but if I don't I'll be okay!

Oh boy, the mission just keeps giving and giving. Like I told you, we have an investigator who's preparing for baptism this Saturday but we were supposed to meet with her today and she wasn't there. We do have a lot of promising people and the family of 6 who came to church on Sunday and who are planning to keep coming to church. We had to endure a lot this transfer--a lot of rejection at the beginning, not seeing a lot of success. President sent the mission a letter last week and he sounded disappointed in the numbers we had--this week he was a lot more enthusiastic because all our numbers are up. There have been a lot of changes in the mission recently with how we're to contact people, the meetings we have and such so we can focus more time on seeing nonmembers. With any change, we need a little time to adjust and then recover from the changes--I think we've leveled out and are now climbing.

I know that this is the perfect gospel of Jesus Christ. I know our Savior lives and loves us and has provided a way for us to be clean and happy and to learn, change and grow. I am grateful for His mercy and grace and am forever indebted to Him for His loving sacrifice. I am grateful for all of you and your examples. I read a quote on Sister Schow's fridge that talks about 1 Cor. 13--though I have all faith and all knowledge and sacrifice, if I do not have charity, I am nothing. I'm trying to focus on the two great commandments--love God and love my fellow man as myself. I think that's the only way to find true peace and happiness in this life.

Love you all,

kates


Monday, May 7, 2012

Milagro!


Buenos dias mi querida familia bonita preciosa,

Well this week flew by. That's becoming a common thing. In one more week Sister Fernandez will be gone and I will be missing her like crazy. But such is life--such is the mission.

This week we went on exchanges with the exchange sister, Hermana Ashton. Sister Ashton was in Stockton with Sister Carlos just before I came (she's 3 transfers older than me). Ever since I got here I've wanted to serve with Sister Ashton, but it doesn't look like that'll ever happen since we're some of the "old" sisters in Spanish. We went on actual exchanges--Sister Fernandez went to Elk Grove with Sister Ashton's companion, Sister Randall, for a day while Sister Ashton came to East Sac with me. Then I went to Elk Grove for a day with Sister Randall while Sister Fernandez stayed in East Sac. I know that's typical for the elders since they always switch with the district leader and zone leaders, but it's a little different for sisters since there aren't many of us. It was neat getting to teach with her, especially since she was just in East Sac for six months, so she knew some of the people we visited, and she was my walking GPS.

Sister Fernandez said that miracles always happen while the exchange sister is here. When Sister Ashton and I were doing language study, I got a call from some missionaries in Roseville. Our area borders the Roseville Mission, and Sister Fernandez and I may have actually driven over the border a few times without realizing it...  So anyway, the Roseville Spanish elders called and told us about a sister they were teaching who had a baptismal date who moved into a different apartment because she wanted to be closer to the church building. She had gone to church about five times and didn't want to have to get rides from members, and from this new apartment she could just walk to church. She accidentally moved out of the Roseville Mission and into ours! We've been able to meet with her a few times and are preparing her for baptism. We have a few things to teach still, but we're really excited about that miracle (and sad for the elders who have been teaching her for three months). But it's the same work!

Well, everything's pretty much the same. Wish I had something more to report on! I read President Uchtdorf's talk this morning on The Merciful Obtain Mercy. That is such a wonderful talk. I love the bumper sticker he refers to that says "don't judge me because I sin differently than you." I had just heard a talk by President Uchtdorf on my iPod this morning that talked about the two great commandments--love the Lord thy God with all thy heart and love they neighbor. Basically it's been drilled into my head lately how much we need to love, not judge, others because we're all children of God, brothers and sisters.

Love you all,

kates